If your spouse has recently filed for divorce, you may have seen it coming, or you may have been caught completely off-guard. Realizing that your marriage has failed can be one of the hardest things to accept emotionally. It is important that you take some time for yourself and to invest time in healing before you take action to address the logistical issues.
If you foresee a divorce on the horizon, it is important that you do not sit and wait for the inevitable. By planning for a divorce before taking action, you will be able to prepare yourself emotionally and financially. This can minimize the toll that the process will take on your life.
Finding out that your spouse wants a divorce can be incredibly devastating. There's no telling what they might want in the divorce or how they will proceed when it comes to things like child custody, spousal support, the family home and many other important items.
In general, things go more smoothly when people get along. Ironically, spouses usually separate due to being on different pages and wanting to go other directions. Regardless, agreement has a lot to do with how quickly you can get through the divorce process.